Until about 2 years ago, I was the queen of the leftovers. I would plan meals so that not only did we have leftovers for lunch the next day, but I had leftover meat to use for another recipe. In cooking, this was efficient and great. I would still be the queen, but my royal subjects eat all my food now. No matter how much I make, the Beetle and the Goose devour it, so the leftover days are gone.
I wish I could say the same for my spiritual life. Unfortunately, most days, I’m still the queen of the leftovers. When it comes to my spiritual walk, that’s not a good thing. I am only giving God the left over time in my day instead of putting Him first.
There have been times in my life when I made sure to study my Bible and pray every morning. However, these times were usually short-lived. This is something I have struggled with since the beginning of time. (Or at least, the beginning of my time.) It’s hard to make time for God! As terrible as that sounds, it’s true.
Anyone who has been to church more than once in their lives has probably heard the preacher’s illustration of filling a jar. If you have large stones, rocks, pebbles and sand to fit into a jar, the order in which you put it matters. If you put the sand and pebbles in first, they will fill up the jar and not leave room for the large stones and rocks. However, if you put the large stones first, then you can put the rocks next. The pebbles and sand will go in easily as they will fill in the cracks around the bigger items. The point is, if we put the important things first in our day, the rest will get done because they will just trickle in around the important ones. That’s an illustration I think of often as I wonder where my day has gone and realize that I let the sand fill my time.
So many days, I hit the ground running. I wake up and immediately think of all the things that have to be done before I can go back to bed. I put in a load of laundry, get started working, do the dishes, etc. I let all the little pebbles fill my jar, while the large stones and rocks wait to the side, never getting done. It’s when I remember to put the important things in my day first that I get more accomplished. I would imagine every mother out there struggles with the same thing. There’s just so much to do and so little time to get it done!
Through the years, I’ve heard some suggestions on how to better fit Bible study and prayer into a daily schedule. This list is by no means complete. I would love to hear what anyone else wants to suggest. This is something I struggle with, as I am sure many of you do too.
Here’s the list so far:
- Find a good Bible study book that interests you. If you have a reason to study, you are more likely to study.
- Read the Psalms. Study one or two a day as this will keep you busy for at least a month.
- Keep a prayer journal. I have done this on and off during my adult years. It is encouraging to go back and read my prayers from the past and know how they have been answered. As an example, I prayed for a year and a half for a second child, and I just knew I was going to die if I didn’t get one. The Goose proves that God answered that prayer in His time.
- Use a prayer rock. Now, this sounds silly, but it works. Use a rock to remind you to pray. At night, put it on the floor so you step on it in the morning. You’ll remember to pray. Then, in the morning, put it on your pillow so you’ll see it (or feel it!) when you go to bed. Then, you’ll remember to pray again.
- Specify certain things to pray for each day of the week. That way, you feel motivated to pray, since you have a “reason.” (As if we don’t already have a million reasons!) Here’s a suggested schedule:
Sunday – Pray for the growth and strength of your church family
Monday – Pray for the physical and spiritual health of your physical family
Tuesday – Pray for those who are sick and hurting
Wednesday – Pray for those who are lost
Thursday – Pray for the military and those in the community who serve us through various occupations
Friday – Pray for the government
Saturday – Pray for yourself for strength, wisdom and the fruits of the spirit
What are some other tricks that you use to get into God’s word and into prayer daily? I would love to hear any suggestions you have. Maybe they will help me not to be the queen of the leftovers! -Al